The Darkness still finds me from time to time, even on antidepressants. It follows its path and comes when my hormones surge once a month. I think it’s harder to deal with now, now that I’ve started to know what it’s like to live without it. I feel myself sinking into the dark shadows of my mind. I can think “Ugh, I’m depressed.” But it doesn’t make it better.
Today was one of those days. I feel blah. I feel down. And I shouldn’t. I finished a huge presentation that I have to give Thursday and gave a run through: falling perfectly into the allotted time. I got the last cheese danish at the library cafe. And it was free cone day! And I didn’t even have to go stand in line alone. Just Friend joined me. I got invited out Saturday night by a friend while eating said free cone. I took the afternoon off to relax and catch up on chores. The evening: crafting with my ladies and a couple glasses of wine. I mean, what is there not to like about this day?
But all day … in the recesses of my soul: The Darkness. I’m not good enough. I’m just being used for the things I can contribute – not who I am. I’m ugly. I don’t know what to make of my breakup. I miss my ex. I’m angry and sad at our breakup and the loss of his friendship. But maybe he was never my friend. Maybe I did something stupid and I’m to blame. Ugh, I’m worthless. My work isn’t good enough. People laugh at me behind my back. What a waste of space and time. I want to call someone. But I don’t because I don’t want to plague people with my neediness and have them see me like this. Ugly, stupid, listening to these falsities. But they aren’t falsities when I’m like this. It’s all very real.
Living with depression sucks. It sucks even more when you become cognitive of the fact you have depression.